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What I Learned From Not Seeing Results Immediately

​Hey guys😊 While let’s talk…my topic today more personal and I’m sure everybody can relate to this. Imagine working hard towards success and every step you take it seems like you are moving further and further to the set goal. Like starting a business and still not seeing any returns. Or just not getting the opportunities you wish to get. (Exhausting right, I would know) Let’s talk about it more. As someone who studied Journalism and graduated. I thought after school finding opportunities in the industry would be easy like there’s Glamour, GQ, and all these publications. Writers are needed and so I thought. After graduating, I worked as an intern at BONA magazine. Great opportunity given the history of the publication. You get to go to invites and everybody is sending you PR releases. You feel like you are on top of the world. What they don’t tell you is yes you are invited but you will be transporting yourself to that event. Your outfit is on you etc. I mean you earn an intern salary...

24 Things I learnt before turning 24

​Happy Wednesday to all my girlies and guylies🥺 So today is my birthday (02’  Aries baby). So much is going through my hand right now like am I really getting older.( Don’t get me wrong I think growth is important I am just looking back at my life I can say I have come far). Failed a lot but I got back up even stronger. Firstly I would like to Thank God for this day. Like I really have 6 years till I am 30 damn (lol). I know why you are here so let me stop rumbling and get into it. 24 things I learnt before turning 24: Be selfless at times—but only when it doesn’t cost you your peace. Learning to say NO is self-respect, not selfishness. No relationship is worth your sanity. Never compromise your happiness for temporary comfort. Stop people-pleasing—it drains you more than it fulfills you. Not everything deserves your energy or explanation. Focusing too much on romantic relationships can make you lose yourself. The right love won’t require you to shrink. Maintaining friends...

New Year, New Me — But With Intention This Time

​Hey fellow blog readers… Firstly, Happy New Year, I hope you transitioned well into the year and you achieve greatness above all things. The last time I wrote here was sometime last year. Where have I been…(let’s talk about it). 2025 as a freelancer was not really great for me to the point that writing and showing up on my platforms was difficult. Choosing not to dwell in the past, I hope 2026 is different. This year we will try to be more consistent and write from the heart. This platform serves as a space where I share my experiences and vision with whose that I love. Will I be consistent this year? (Who knows) Just enjoy the ride… -LOVE DEE

CHAPTER 1: My journey into freelance writing

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 Hi again..... Welcome to my first BEHIND THE COLUMN entry. I hope you stay and enjoy my journey with me as a newly freelance writer. Although I have introduced myself before, I will do it again, as this entry is more personal and the beginning of even greater things to come. My name is Limpho Liphiwe Nonkonyane, but I prefer being called Dee, mainly because most people get the pronunciation of my name wrong, and I've grown tired of correcting them. Limpho means 'God's gifts, a Sotho name given by my late dad, Vuyo Nonkonyane, and my middle name, Liphiwe, was provided by my Xhosa mother, Nomfundo Magingxa. Born on the 8th of April 2002, somewhere in Cape Town (I can't remember the hospital lol). Obivously I did the schooling thing and ended up later studying Journalism at IIE Rosebank College and graudauting with a cum laude. I just knew I wanted to be a journalist, as I loved being the centre of attention and just telling people things they didn't know (so I though...

The start of an amazing era.

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Welcome to my beauty blog!! Hi, my fellow beauty lovers- welcome to THE BEAUTY COLUMN BY DEE!   Before I start, I have to introduce myself and what I am about, obviously, so here we go... PICTURE: PEXELS My name is Limpho Liphiwe Nonkonyane, also known by many as Dee. I am a beauty and fashion writer and the curious soul behind this little corner of the internet. This blog is more than just a space to talk about skincare routines or the latest makeup launches- it's a space for me to express myself and take you along on my makeup journey. Spit into four categories: Skincare Diaries, Makeup Muse, Glow up Guide and Behind the Column seeks to educate aspiring beauty enthusiasts on way to go about doing certain things within the beauty space. So I hope you stick around and enjoy the ride, cause I will be spilling everything. Again, thank you for stopping by can't wait to grow this space with you. With love, DEE.